We have a LOLcow Of The Week nominee!

That's why we come onto lolcow LOL, nobody here gives a shit about the facade of PC terms, and it's weirdly such a breath of fresh air to come in as an autist myself and see "sperg" being flung everywhere. ... Temperature in Belfast will be 3-7c (37-44f) for the next week. Anonymous 12/18/21 ... >>1367333 it's because in the after they've already gone through some transition and realized it doesn't solve any of their problems, but they can't just go back to being evil cissies/detransition because their entire online echo chamber that groomed them into transing out wouldn't approve. said echo chamber is also their safety net that offers constant validation so they much rather stay ...

2022.01.27 23:06 Hyperius999 We have a LOLcow Of The Week nominee!

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2022.01.27 23:06 diminishedflame Hololive X Dying Light 2

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2022.01.27 23:06 Sweaty_Story_3290 Is my mother controlling/narcissist?

My siblings and I all suffer from some mental disorders. A few months ago I had a scary life changing mental episode that i’ll never forget, and still am traumatized from. I never thought about my mental health until that point, but it was so obvious to me that my siblings and I all have personality disorders. My brother is kind of odd, I think he’s schizoid, I think I am BPD and NPD, my sister has anxiety, adhd, sleep problems.
I was losing my mind, I felt like a psychopath. I couldn’t help but to wonder why there is something wrong with me. I started to read on the internet and realize stuff.
My mom was abused and tortured by her controlling mom and had a passive alcoholic father. I do feel bad. My mom always told me that “thanks to her mom” she knows exactly how not to act. I don’t know if I am trying to pin the “blame” on her, but I think that the way i live in and view myself and others is directly a cause of her parenting.
I have never cause harm to anyone, but myself. And I am constantly unhappy with myself and jealous of others. I’m constantly going crazy in my head hearing voices, negatively talking to myself, analyzing everything. etc. I had to have learned this from her... The earliest memory I have was when I was two or three. I was in one of the baby chairs watching tv eating a Pb and j sandwich. I guess I was being bad or maybe i was just being a kid...but I took apart the sandwich and the peanut butter was all of my hands,face, and the chair. My mom comes into the kitchen sooner or later and sees the mess i made. She was so angry and she shouted at me, and i cried. She took me to the bathtub to “rinse” off the peanut butter. The whole time she was angry and she said “I wish I would hve never given birth to you” . That’s the first memory i have i don’t remember much, she insist that never happen.
I remember sitting at the dinner table as a kid. Me, my dad, my brother, my sister laughing having a normal conversation. Anytime my mom chimed in it was something so negative and weird. Anytime my dad would call her out for anything negative or rude she said. She would play the victim and say he was yelling at her and was a crazy man. This always happens. She stirs up some nonsense and it comes out of her mouth then ONVIOUSLY someone in the house is going to get offended and stand up for themselves. THEN, she pulls the victim card. She has something against black people, she has something against dogs, she thinks animals smell, she always compares me to other kids. She is fucking nuts. She makes you feel like shit for being happy. She has no love at all. She is an unemotional mother. I think she ruined my fathers life. She split up our relationship. My dad is passive asf. He just works, cleans, redos the house. It is never enough for my mom. All she does is sit on the fucking couch all day. she’s disgusting. She picks on me. My dad is depressed i just know it but he pretends not to be when i ask him what’s wrong. I feel so bad for him and i don’t know why. I just know if my mom didn’t trap him in a relationship at 14 years old he would have had such a better life. He lives with a controlling, narcissist woman, who has stripped him of all his masculinity and happiness. He looks sad all the time. He had no interests in anything anymore.
I don’t get how she is not abusive at all but exactly like her mother. She is so unemotionally available. Every remark always is backhanded when you think ab it. Bribing other people down is what makes her alive. She may not be physically abusive. But she is verbally and emotionally abusive. You would never even notice. She just digs at your insecurities in the slyest way ever. You don’t even notice it.
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2022.01.27 23:06 Ok_Set7367 I'm straight but I only have sex with guys because girls think i'm too ugly

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2022.01.27 23:06 Warm-Goose13 Not sure what's going on...

Im not sure what's going on with me. I graduated last year, im in my early 20s and I have not been able to find a job. I've been feeling hopeless ever since I moved back home, I don't want to get out of bed or do anything. im barely eating and I've been pushing all of my friends away. I used to be very social and loved going out, but now it just feels so useless and does not interest me at all when it used to be my favorite past time. anything fun or good to do just makes me feel guilty for example if I go to a birthday because I have to and I have fun I just end up feeling guilty for having fun. I have no energy to improve myself whether its working out or watching/reading something that will help me career wise. I just feel really useless and dumb. my parents have been supporting me and I am very blessed and grateful for that but it makes me feel so much shame. my mom said some very hurtful things to me today and I get where she's coming from and deep down I know she's right. I can't even gather the strength to help out around the house which is wrong on my part. I just feel numb all the freaking time and it sucks. I've had my waves come and go before in my life with feeling like this but it has never lasted this long. im usually very positive and able to pull myself out of this funk but I haven't been able to. I also feel weak minded and it scares me to think that I get like this when things go wrong because I honestly haven't faced any real life problems that I probably will in the future. its just disappointing because I considered myself stronger than this. I don't want to talk to my friends about this either, I don't like people knowing and seeing me in this state. it just really sucks, my parents think im just a spoiled brat who's being lazy. I just don't know what to do its like I have all of these goals in mind and things I want to do but I just can't physically do them and I very much doubt myself all the time. im not even sad I just feel numb all the time and I pass each day feeling the same way.
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2022.01.27 23:06 PutridPhilosopher195 Can you see the white smudges on the glass? The outside is perfectly clear but the inside is smudgy. Is there anything I can do to clean it?

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2022.01.27 23:06 Meeerrp Added my first crestie friend to our family and I’m already obsessed 😊 need name suggestions!

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2022.01.27 23:06 ScreamingBanshee81 How much does it cost to move interstate?

Has anyone moved from NSW to QLD recently?
I'm trying to work out how much removals are going to cost me from the ACT without having to deal with pushy removals companies.
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2022.01.27 23:06 HarleyD94 I couldn’t stop looking at ethans hand in the glass 😩😩

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2022.01.27 23:06 giseba94 It’s always nice when one of your favourite fighters reply to you.

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2022.01.27 23:06 Muted-Engine-4688 Ripple effect on z axis on ender 3 pro at 50mm speed polymaker matte orange pla

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2022.01.27 23:06 7l1am7 i did not kill robert frosty

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2022.01.27 23:06 Doomfox01 My Dilo was stuck and I couldn’t find any way to unstuck it so I spawned in a cryopod (just to get it unstuck, I’m gonna throw it away after) but when I try to deploy it it says “class disallowed”. How do I fix this?

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2022.01.27 23:06 Electric_Hawk Mirror Maze - Reflect EP (w/ VCTRE, Sumthin Sumthin, and Saray Woolley)

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2022.01.27 23:06 R4UD3L Tenia el pendiente

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2022.01.27 23:06 dsfdgf Donation limits on vip servers

I wan’t to put some cash on my alt but the limit is 20k every 5 minutes a friend told me it’s different on a private server is this true? If so what’s the limit.
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2022.01.27 23:06 twofoldjack Best Kontakt Banks For Making Hard Melodies (Pvlace, Cubeatz, Pyrex, Wheezy)

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2022.01.27 23:06 NomadSound Sean Lennon in the same room at the Hit Factory mixing Yoko's album, Yokokimthurston (2012).

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2022.01.27 23:06 WorldNewsinPictures James Heappey Says it's Not Boris Johnson's Fault if 30 People Come into His Office With Cake. HE'S THE F******G PRIME MINISTER! If he Can't Control His Own Office, How Can he Run a Country!?!??

James Heappey says it's not Boris Johnson's fault if 30 people come into his office with cake. HE'S THE F******G PRIME MINISTER! If he can't control his own office, how can he run a country!?!?? James Heappey is a moral vacuum with no understanding of leadership or responsibility.... MORE -> https://worldnewsinpictures.com/bbcqt
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2022.01.27 23:06 ChevyImpalaSS 6 Purdue Vs Iowa

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2022.01.27 23:06 JojoTheLion__24 He officially hates Season 2.. It's been 4 months and 9 days since he uploaded that

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2022.01.27 23:06 EatMePrincess Email Campaign against Raising Money for Autism Speaks?

So we all know Autism is a hate group. I just found out that Cheer LA, a volunteer cheer group which performs to raise money for different charities is set to perform for Autism Speaks in April. Can anyone send them emails explaining why they shouldn't raise money for Autism Speaks: https://cheerla.org/contact2?
I am really disappointed because they claim to support LGBT issues. Gven 70% of Autistics are LGBT, actively supporting an Autism hate group goes against allyship. Any help with getting other people to email them as well would be great. I think of enough people reach out to them and explain why Autism Speaks is bad, maybe they will reconsider or at least won't perform for them in the future.
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2022.01.27 23:06 Exotic_Discussion_70 23 M super chill looking for online friends

I’m pretty outgoing and can keep a conversation. I’m a creator so I’m always on a computephone so I thought I’d make some friends while im at it idk
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2022.01.27 23:06 King_Dictator My GBA/DS/3DS & games collection over the years, plus one new addition!

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2022.01.27 23:06 OceanOG Return Octane to what he was before the last nerfs.

I get that people were getting so tired of the revenant/octane meta, but revenant received significant nerds to stop that meta from being a thing any more. Octane got shafted and got every area of his character addressed, yet Gibby remains the same season after season.
•Octane takes way too much damage when he stims now. 20 heath each time is such a disadvantage because it makes him significantly weaker than any character in the game from a health standpoint. It’s wild to me that fortified is a thing, but Octane loses so much health from 1 stim.
•Using the stim twice in rapid succession is basically a death wish, anything more than twice and you’ve basically killed your self.
•Why his Pad was even touched, I still don’t understand. The audio being louder, okay fine whatever. But nerfing the height/distance was unnecessary. Making it a longer cooldown also makes no sense.
TL;DR- Revenant got the needed nerfs to stop the rev/octane meta. Octane is basically half a Gibby now.
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